Prep the shrimp. Pat the shrimp dry.
Toss with buttermilk (or the milk-lemon mix) and let sit 10–15 minutes. This helps the coating stick and keeps shrimp juicy.
Mix the coating. In a bowl, combine cornstarch, optional flour, garlic powder, smoked paprika, onion powder, salt, and black pepper. Stir well so every grain is seasoned.
Dredge the shrimp. Lift shrimp from the marinade, letting extra drip off.
Toss in the coating until evenly covered. Shake off excess for a lighter crust.
Heat the oil. Add 1/3 cup neutral oil to a large skillet over medium-high heat. The oil is ready when a pinch of coating sizzles on contact.
Cook in batches. Lay shrimp in a single layer.
Fry 1–2 minutes per side until golden and crisp. Do not crowd the pan. Move cooked shrimp to a paper towel–lined plate and sprinkle with a pinch of salt.
Make the hot honey glaze. In a small saucepan on low, warm hot honey with 1 tbsp butter until glossy, 1–2 minutes.
If using plain honey, stir in hot sauce or red pepper flakes to taste. Keep warm.
Toss or drizzle. For a lighter finish, drizzle the hot honey over the shrimp right before serving. For stickier, more intense flavor, toss the shrimp gently in a bowl with half the glaze, then add more to taste.
Assemble the bowls. Add your base (rice, quinoa, or greens).
Top with veggies, avocado, and edamame or chickpeas if using. Pile on the crispy hot honey shrimp.
Finish with crunch and freshness. Sprinkle sesame seeds or peanuts and shower with herbs. Add a squeeze of lime and a light drizzle of the yogurt-lime sauce if you like creamy contrast.
Serve immediately. These bowls are best when the shrimp are still crisp and warm against cool, crunchy veggies.