Mix the sauce. In a small bowl, whisk soy sauce, rice vinegar, sesame oil, sriracha, and honey until smooth. Set aside.
Brown the protein.
Heat a large skillet or wok over medium-high. Add oil, then your ground meat or crumbled tofu. Season with a pinch of salt and pepper.
Cook, breaking it up, until browned and no longer pink (5–7 minutes). Drain excess liquid if needed.
Build the flavor base. Add onion, garlic, and ginger to the pan.
Sauté until fragrant and softened, about 2 minutes. Don’t let the garlic burn.
Add veggies. Stir in cabbage (or slaw mix), bell pepper, and carrots.
Toss well. Cook 4–6 minutes, stirring often, until the cabbage is tender but still has some bite.
Scramble the eggs. Push the mixture to one side of the pan.
Add a light drizzle of oil if the pan looks dry. Pour in beaten eggs and scramble until just set. Fold into the rest of the mix.
Season and sauce.
Pour in the sauce and toss to coat evenly. If using edamame, add it now. Cook 1–2 minutes so the flavors meld.
Taste and adjust salt, pepper, or heat.
Finish with freshness. Turn off the heat. Stir in most of the green onions and cilantro, reserving a bit for garnish.
Serve.
Spoon into bowls. Top with sesame seeds, extra scallions, a squeeze of lime, and chopped nuts if you like. Serve over cauliflower rice or regular rice for a more filling meal.